Be Brief. Be Brilliant. Be Gone!
Saturday, April 25th, 2009I have to thank one of my bestfriends, Leslie for this fabulous statement. So simple and so true. The more I learn about effective communication the more profound it becomes. I find myself impatient with people who cannot get to the point or worse, don’t have one. This is not to say that I don’t enjoy conversation or the development of a topic as the conversation evolves.
Effective communication is a skill that everyone should spend time developing and the best way to do it, in my opinion, is by joining Toastmasters. It’s not everyday that someone will stand up in front of an audience and give a speech. Yet, every single day you will talk to someone - spouse, business associate, kid, vendor, friend, potential customer, exisiting client, or a complete stranger.
The question to ask is, “How did you feel after your last interaction with another person?” Did you feel more positive or more negative? Every single interaction no matter how brief affects everything in your life: your relationships, productivity, health, and longevity. So if that is truly the case, then maybe you need to think about how you really come across to other people. Are you getting the results you want? If not, remember this: “The Quality of My Communication is the Quality of the Response I Get”.
That means its totally up to you to be clear and precise. Is it easy? No. Can it get easier?. Absolutely. And that means working on it today, tomorrow, always. Everyone is different. How we learn, listen, share and speak. If you’re struggling, and have the desire to do something about it, Just know the tools are there to help you.
Stand at my desk, want to sell me something, or explain a process, then my expectation is that you will Be Brief. Be Brilliant. Be Gone!
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